Stop justifying the 45 deaths on Mount Meron - opinion There is no reason and no justification for the victims' deaths. There is no good that came from their deaths. No lesson for the collective Jewish people. By SHMULEY BOTEACH MAY 3, 2021
My daughter called me before the Sabbath in terrible pain. Beyond trying to process the deaths of religious Jews at Mount Meron on Lag Ba'omer, she was in an argument on a chat group with a woman who said that the deaths had a reason. It turns out, this woman prophesied, that God sent these 45 men to their deaths in order to teach the rest of us Jews a lesson. God hates the current state of Jewish disunity, of divisions within the community, the political polarization of the State of Israel. So he sent this tragedy as a wake-up call to the rest of us Jews. I should mention that the woman in question – Orthodox-Jewish and religious herself – wrote all this while the bodies had not even been buried. My daughter told me the woman's comments made her sick. I told her they made me want to puke as well. That was only the beginning. Over the next few days I would read countless media columnists who understood the deaths of 45 haredim in other ways. Some said, in essence, that the haredim had it coming, as they so often flaunt the police and the rules. Forty-five dead. That'll show 'em. Others said that this just proves that the haredim, who didn't abide by the rules of the coronavirus, have now learned that self-governance comes with a price. Left unsaid through all this stomach-turning justification for the mass deaths of 45 completely innocent people was that they were parents, husbands and children of many people who loved them, even if those who were justifying their deaths felt nothing but contempt for their lives. It is true that Mount Meron was a turning point in Israeli history. Not because of how many people died. That was shocking and horrible beyond words, a truly unspeakable tragedy. Rather, what made it a turning point was that it was the first time where I actually witnessed the Jewish community trivializing the deaths of fellow Jews with all kinds of blabber and the most insensitive nonsense, with no price being paid on the part of those uttering this garbage. Imagine if someone had written about the Holocaust, "Sure, six million is a terrible price. But it serves them right. They should have known to be Zionists and immigrate to Palestine. Did two thousand years of European antisemitism teach them nothing?" Or if someone had written of the 11 martyred Israeli athletes in Munich, "Truly, a terrible tragedy. But what did they expect returning to Germany just 25 years after the Holocaust?" Let's at least agree that any columnist writing such things would probably have experienced the most severe censure. But telling 45 ultra-Orthodox Jews that they should have known better than to go to a massive outdoor religious gathering somehow became acceptable, even as the grief-stricken families were scrambling just to bury their loved ones before the Sabbath. SO, IN case it's not clear, let me be absolutely clear. What happened in Meron was one of the worst tragedies to befall the Jewish people since the Holocaust. It is an unmitigated tragedy. There is no reason and no justification for the victims' deaths. There is no good that came from their deaths. No lesson for the collective Jewish people. No celestial or cosmic redemption to be earned from their loss. They should be alive. We mourn, along with their families and the entire House of Israel. I am so sorry for their families. The pain must be beyond excruciating. May none of us ever know any such tragedy, God forbid. The fact that there should have been greater police oversight? The fact that the haredim need more civic rules by which their gatherings should be governed? There will be time for all of those investigations and ruminations. They are, of course, necessary and essential. But not now. Not during the shiva. Let the families grieve without our insensitive commentary. ELEVEN YEARS ago I visited Haiti with my daughter Mushki just days after the earthquake that decimated the island and killed hundreds of thousands of people. We brought food and supplies with a Christian relief organization. I witnessed suffering beyond human imagination. The stench of death was quite literally all around us. When I returned, I addressed, in a public speech, the question of why a good God allows the innocent to suffer. I was amazed when an observant Jew approached me to say that the people of Haiti were not innocent, immersed as they are in idol worship. "Surely you don't mean to say that the morgue filled with the babies that I witnessed, the stench so bad that I was gagging, deserved to die? Or that the discarded bodies I saw being eaten by dogs deserved their fate?" I asked. His response: The people of Haiti as a whole were being punished. A similar sentiment had been voiced at the time by the Rev. Pat Robertson on The 700 Club. I have always been puzzled as to why many religious people enjoy portraying God as executioner-in-chief and are always finding reasons to justify human suffering. The Holocaust produced two camps of Jews. Many decided that the Jews had been punished for intermarriage and wanting to be secular. But others had a much more Jewish response. They rejected any theological justification or self-blame and set to work even harder toward the creation of a Jewish state, where Jews would find refuge and build an army to prevent another genocide. The appropriate response to death is always life. And the Jewish response to suffering is to demand that God put an end to it. The very name "Israel" translates as "He who wrestles with God." We argue with God over the loss of every innocent human life. We never justify suffering. So many people search for a reason why people die. They want to redeem tragedy by giving it meaning. Suffering ennobles the spirit, they say. It makes you more mature. It helps you focus on what's important in life. I would argue that suffering has no purpose, no redeeming qualities, and any attempts to infuse it with rich significance are deeply immoral. Of course, suffering can lead ultimately to a positive outcome. The rich man who had contempt for the poor and suddenly goes bankrupt can become more empathetic when he himself struggles. The arrogant executive who treats his subordinates poorly can soften when he is told that he, God forbid, has a challenging health issue. But does it have to come about this way? Is suffering the only way to learn goodness? Jewish values maintain that there is no good that comes from suffering that could not have come through a more blessed means. Some people win the lottery and are so humbled that they dedicate a huge portion to charity. A rock star like Bono becomes rich and famous and consecrates his celebrity to the relief of African poverty. Yes, the Holocaust led directly to the creation of the State of Israel. But there are plenty of nations that came into existence without being preceded by gas chambers. Here is another way that Jewish values are so strongly distinguished from other value systems. Many religions believe that suffering is redemptive. In Christianity, the suffering servant, the crucified Christ, brings atonement for the sins of humankind through his own torment. The message: No suffering, no redemption. Someone has to die so that the sins of mankind are erased. Suffering is therefore extolled in the New Testament. Paul even made suffering an obligation, encouraging the fledgling Christians to "share in suffering like a good soldier of Christ Jesus." But Judaism, in prophesying a perfect messianic future where there is no death or pain, ultimately rejects the suffering-is-redemptive narrative. Suffering isn't a blessing; it's a curse. Jews are obligated to alleviate all human misery. Suffering leaves you bitter rather than blessed, scarred rather than humble. Few endure suffering without serious and lasting trauma. Suffering leads to a tortured spirit and a pessimistic outlook. It scars our psyches and creates a cynical consciousness, devoid and bereft of hope. Suffering causes us to dig out the insincerity in the hearts of our fellows and to be envious of other people's happiness. If individuals do become better people as a result of their suffering, it is despite the fact that they suffered, not because of it. Ennoblement of character comes through triumph over suffering rather than its endurance. Speak to Holocaust survivors and ask them what they gathered from their suffering, aside from loneliness, heartbreak and outrage. To be sure, they also learned the value of life and the sublime quality of human companionship. But these lessons, this depth, could easily have been learned through life-affirming experiences that do not leave all of one's relatives as ash. I believe that my parents' divorce drove me to a deeper appreciation of family and a greater embrace of religion. Yet I know people who have led completely privileged lives and have far deeper philosophies of life than I have, and are even more devoted to their religion than I am. And they have the advantage of not being bitter, cynical or pessimistic the way children of divorce can sometimes be because of the pain of early childhood. Whatever good we as individuals or the world in general receive from suffering can be brought about in a painless, joyful manner. And it behooves people of faiths especially to once and for all cease justifying the death of innocents and instead rush to comfort and aid the survivors. The Meron 45 are sorely missed. May their memory be an unmitigated blessing. The writer is founder of the World Values Network and the international best-selling author of 30 books, including Judaism for Everyone. Follow him on Twitter and Facebook @RabbiShmuley. | 
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