22 Yiddish Expressions About Telling the Truth By Professor Richard Zuckerman and Menachem Posner Truth is a prized quality in Judaism, to the point that Talmud calls it is G‑d's own signature.1 The Hebrew, and by extension Yiddish, word for truth is emes. Comprising the three Hebrew letters א-מ-ת, it is a composite of the first letter of the Hebrew alphabet (aleph), the middle letter (mem) and the final letter (tav). Take a look at the three letters of אמת, and you will see that they each have two feet, providing a sturdy basis upon which to stand. Conversely, the word for untruth, sheker, looks like this: שקר, with each letter precariously perched upon a single leg, ready to topple over. In light of the important place that truth has in our tradition, we present you with a collection of Yiddish expressions about telling the truth and avoiding falsehood. The best lie is the truth Der bester lign iz der emes דער בעסטער ליגן איז דער אמת When struggling with whether or not to tell the truth, it is important to remember that coming clean, while initially painful, will be much better in the long run. A liar needs a good memory A ligner muz hobn a gutn zikorn א ליגנער מוז האָבן א גוטן זכּרון A lie which seems innocent can sometimes create a web of untruths and fantasies that becomes increasingly difficult to maintain. Would his word be a bridge, people would be afraid to cross Ven zayn vort volt geven a brik, volt men meyre gehat aribertsugeyn ווען זיין וואָרט וואָלט געווען א בריק וואָלט מען מורא געהאַט אַריבערצוגיין The worth of a person's word is directly tied to how truthful they are. Unfortunately, once a person has lost trust once or twice, their word becomes a shaky bridge which no one trusts. Truth floats like oil over water Der emes shvimt aruf vi beyml afn vaser דער אמת שווימט אַרוף ווי בוימל אַפן וואַסער A person may think that he has buried the truth under a carefully constructed lie, but it is merely a matter of time before the truth will surface. In business, there are no buddies In handlshaft iz nito keyn brudershaft אין האַנדלשאַפט איז ניטאָ קיין ברודערשאַפט The unfortunate reality is that even those who are otherwise decent, kind and honest, sometimes become ruthless and crooked when money is involved. The honest way is the hard way Erlekh iz shverlekh ערלעך איז שווערלעך This little rhyme expresses the fact that it is not always easy to take the moral high road. According to the eye with which you look at someone, is the face he has Mit vos far a eygn m'kukt eynem on, aza ponim hot er מיט וואָס פאַר אַ אויגן מ'קוקט איינעם אָן אַזא פּנים האָט ער Truth, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder. Sometimes, it pays to look charitably upon others, even if it means glossing over some of their shortcomings. As a result, the person's behavior will actually reflect the kind eye trained upon them. A fool fools a fool A nar nart a nar אַ נאַר נאַרט אַ נאַר A fool attempts to fool others around him, but wise people generally see through the untruths, leaving only the fools fooled. The thief's hat is on fire Afn ganev brent dos hitl אַפן גנב ברענט דאָס היטל The story behind the expression: A robbery occurred but everyone denied knowledge of the affair. A wise man shouted, "The thief's hat is burning!" and watched to see who would lift their hand to check for flames on their head. This expression has come to denote someone who denies wrongdoing, but whose own words or actions show otherwise. Promising and loving both don't cost any money Tsuzogn un lib hobn kost nit keyn gelt צוזאָגן און ליב האָבן קאָסט ניט קיין געלט A promise is only worth as much as the integrity of the person making the promise. Unfortunately, rash expressions of love may not portend long-term commitment. Truth has all the finest qualities, but it's shy Der emes hot aleh mailes ober er iz a shemvediker דער אמת האָט אַלע מעלות אָבער ער איז א שעמעוודיקער If you were to ascribe human attributes to Truth, you know who he'd be: That painfully shy friend who is wise, kind and caring, but no one takes the time to get to know. The mirror tells the truth Der shpigl zogt ois der emes דער שפּיגל זאָגט אויס דעם אמת We can embellish, airbrush and hide, but there comes a moment when we find ourselves staring truth in the face. G‑d likes the truth Got hot lib dem emes גאָט האָט ליב דעם אמת It's not always easy or popular to tell the truth, but we can take comfort and inspiration from the knowledge that truth is prized by G‑d Himself. Truth does not die but he subsides like a pauper Der emes shtarbt nit, ober er lebt vi an oriman דער אמת שטאַרבט ניט אָבער ער לעבט ווי אַן אָרימאַן The truth is eternal and can never disappear, but that doesn't mean that anyone necessarily pays it attention. One mustn't tell a lie, but neither must one tell the truth Keyn lign tor men nit zogn, nor dem emes darf eykh nit zogn קיין ליגן טאָר מען ניט זאָגן נאָר דעם אמת דאַרף מען אויך ניט זאָגן There are times when making truth known can do more harm than good. Everyone loves the truth, but not everyone tells the truth Yederer hot lib dem emes, ober nit yeder zogt em יעדערער האָט ליב דעם אמת אָבער ניט יעדערער זאָגט עם Reading this list we can all appreciate the importance and virtuousness of truth, yet when it comes to practice, how many of us slip up from time to time…? Where there is truth, there is success Vu emes, dort is hatslokhe וואו אמת, דאָרט איז הצלחה Truth will lead to success. Eat bread and salt, and don't forget the truth Zalts un breyt zolstu esn un dem emes nit fargesn זאַלץ און ברויט זאָלסטו עסען און דעם אמת ניט פאַרגעסן This rhyme was surely inspired by the sages' teaching that the "way of Torah" includes subsisting on the simple staples of bread and salt. The truth is in the prayer book Der emes iz in siddur דער אמת איז אין סידור The simple Jew of yesteryear may not have been learned enough to open a Talmud, or even a Chumash (Five Books of Moses). But he or she instinctively knew that G‑d was available to him or her through heartfelt prayer, and that the truth of all existence is couched in our traditions. The truth is the greatest swindle Der emes iz der grester shvindl דער אמת איז דער גרעסטער שווינדל Often that which is peddled as "truth" turns out to be a pack of lies. Children and fools are sure to tell the truth Kinder un naronim zogn dem emes קינדער און נאַראָנים זאָגן דעם אמת For better or for worse, we are conditioned to repress truth and smooth over differences. At times, it takes a child to say what everyone else is thinking. A half-truth is a complete lie A halber emes iz a gantser lign א האַלבער אמת איז א גאַנצער ליגן Even if not telling a technical lie, when picking and choosing what to say, one can end up misleading and lying. Footnotes 1. Shabbat 55b. By Professor Richard Zuckerman and Menachem Posner Professor Richard (Rakhmil) Zuckerman is a Yiddish linguist and journalist; for many years he taught Yiddish, French, and Russian at Brooklyn College. Rabbi Menachem Posner serves as staff editor at Chabad.org, the world's largest Jewish informational website. He has been writing, researching, and editing for Chabad.org since 2006, when he received his rabbinic degree from Central Yeshiva Tomchei Temimim Lubavitch. He resides in Chicago, Ill., with his family. Art by Rivka Korf Studio, a Miami-based art design studio run by Rivka Korf, a coffee lover and mother. Rivka uses her expertise and creativity to run a team that creates masterful compositions and illustrations for corporate and large nonprofit organizations. |