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 1. Myth: Kol Nidre Was Invented  by Crypto-Jews in SpainThe Yom Kippur services begin with Kol Nidre,  expressing our regret for any vows we may (inadvertently) make  during the course of the year. There is a persistent (and romantic) myth  that this formula was composed by the anusim,  the Jews who were forced to convert to Catholicism in Spain during the  Inquisition. Before convening for Yom Kippur services, they prayed that any lip  service they paid to Christianity be seen as a sham and not a reflection of  their true intent. This is supposedly also the reason why  Kol Nidre is prefaced with the statement: ". . . by the authority of the  Heavenly Tribunal and by the authority of the earthly tribunal, we hereby grant  permission to pray with the transgressors." Fact: Kol Nidre Predates the  Spanish Inquisition By Hundreds of YearsWhile this is certainly an inspiring  anecdote, and it is quite likely that anusim  said this prayer with added fervor, they could not have invented it since  Kol Nidre predates the Inquisition by at least 500 years. In fact, there is  significant discussion in the Tosafot, composed in France and Germany several  hundred years before the forced Spanish conversions, regarding the precise  legal ramifications of this formula. Indeed, many Sephardic Jews don't even  say Kol Nidre altogether, further discounting the notion that the text  originated in Spain. Read:  Why Is Kol Nidre  Considered the Holiest Prayer? 2. Myth: All Leather Is Forbidden  on Yom KippurSome are under the mistaken belief that one  may not wear a leather belt or garment on Yom Kippur. Fact: Only Leather Shoes Are OutThe five "afflictions" of Yom Kippur include  not wearing "sandals," which tradition defines as leather footwear. Other  leather garments, and all other footwear, are perfectly OK.  Read: Why Do We Wear Sneakers on Yom Kippur?   3. Myth: Unetaneh Tokef Was  Composed by a Rabbi Who Asked to be MutilatedThere is a haunting account attached to  the cherished Yom Kippur prayer, Unetaneh Tokef, which contains the famous  words, "... who by water, and who by fire; who by sword, and who by wild beast;  who by earthquake, and who by pestilence … but repentance, prayer and charity  avert the severity of the decree." The commonly told story, as it is indeed  recorded in ancient texts, is that it was composed by Rabbi Amnon of Maintz,  who told the Duke of Hessen to  mutilate his body as punishment for him even considering converting to  Christianity. Fact: Rabbi Amnon Would Never  Have Done Such a ThingWhile this story is more than likely to contain truth, and Rabbi Amnon may very well have recited this prayer after  being mortally mutilated by the duke, the commonly told version has some  flaws: chiefly that Rabbi Amnon would never willingly ask for his limbs to be  cut off, a violation of Torah's regard for the human body and prohibition  against mutilation. Another issue to contend with is that the prayer was said  for hundreds of years before Rabbi Amnon lived, leaving us to conclude that  Rabbi Amnon may very well have infused extra meaning into this chilling piece  of liturgy, but he could not have been its originator. Read: The Story of Rabbi Amnon of Maintz 4. Myth: Once You Broke the Fast,  You Can Eat FreelyIn English, eating after fasting is often referred to as  "breaking a fast." In addition to giving us the word "breakfast," this has also  led to an all-or-nothing attitude. "Once I've broken the fast by eating that  cookie by mistake," the rationale may go, "I may as well have a cup of coffee  and that cinnamon bun I've been saving for tonight." Fact:  Every Moment You Fast Is ValuableEven if you made a mistake, your Yom Kippur is in no way  invalidated. Life is a ladder, and what matters most is the direction in which  you are climbing. If you've made a mistake, own up to yourself and to G‑d,  express your regret, and resolve to improve. This process, called teshuvah ("repentance" or "return"), is  actually central to your Yom Kippur experience. Read: What Is Teshuvah? 5. Myth: Kids Fast Three  Fasts Before Bar/Bat MitzvahThere is a persistent myth that children  must begin fasting the three fasts before their bar/bat mitzvah, no earlier  and no later.  Thus, an 11-year-old girl whose birthday  is 1 Nissan, for example, should fast on Yom Kippur, since it, 10 Tevet, and  the Fast of Esther would be the final three fasts before she becomes an adult  in the eyes of Jewish law.  Fact: This Has No Halachic BasisChildren are not obligated to perform  mitzvahs before attaining bar or bat mitzvah. However, there are some who  educate children to fast for a year (or several years) prior, depending greatly  on the strength (and desire) of the child. While we do see a number of  landmarks, ranging from age 9 to age 12, three fasts before adulthood is never  given as a time to begin. Read:  When Is a Child Old  Enough to Fast? 6. Myth: Yom Kippur Is a Sad DayPerhaps because it shares some basic  components with Tisha B'Av, our national day of mourning for the destruction of  Jerusalem and the exile of our people, many view Yom Kippur as a sad day. Fact: Yom Kippur Is a Joyous DayThe Talmud tells us that there were no days as  joyous as 15 Av and Yom Kippur. That's right; Yom Kippur is one of the two  happiest days on the calendar! Why so happy? Well for one thing, it's when G‑d  forgives us for our sins, a day when we are cleansed from the baggage we picked  up during the course of the year. How liberating is that! On a deeper level: This forgiveness is  achieved because this day is when we rise above the mundane humdrum of our  lives. Like angels, we connect to our inner souls, and by extension, we are one  with G‑d himself. Now that's worth celebrating!Read: At-Onement
 7. Myth: The Most Important Thing  is to Be in ShulFor many, the most important element of Yom  Kippur is attending services and hearing the chazan chant the ancient prayers, so much so that they may even  ride in the car or otherwise transgress the day's laws in order to be present. Fact: The Yom Kippur Laws Are  Non-NegotiableLike Shabbat, on Yom Kippur we may not do any  of the 39 melachot, including causing combustion.  For this reason, riding a car is forbidden, and when faced with the choice of  driving to synagogue or remaining home, one should choose to remain home rather  than drive during this sacred day. Read: Can We Drive Grandma on Shabbat?   8. Myth: The Shofar Ends the Fast                                                                                                                                                                                    | Photo: Chaya Mishulovin, Lubavitch Chabad of Skokie |  After we have fasted for 25 hours, one of the  high points of the Neila (concluding) service is crying out the Shema in  unison, followed by the sounding of the shofar. There is a common belief that  the shofar blowing causes the fast to end, which has led some to mistakenly  blow shofar and eat before night has fallen. Fact: The Fast Ends When Stars  Come OutThere are some who explain that we blow shofar  to publicize that the evening following Yom Kippur is  a holiday, and it is now time to feast and celebrate the closeness we've  achieved and the forgiveness we've secured during this awesome day. However, the shofar does not cause the  fast to end any more than the dinging of your toaster makes your bread brown  and crunchy. Rather, nightfall and Havdalah (see when that is in your area) are what permit  a person to eat.  Read:  Why Do We Blow  Shofar on Yom Kippur?  9. Myth: Yom Kippur Service Is a  Typical Prayer Service                                                                                                                                                                                    | The open ark in the main sanctuary of Lubavitch Chabad of Skokie. |  Many people attend synagogue only on Rosh  Hashanah and Yom Kippur, and are dismayed to discover that the services are  conducted in a language they don't understand and seem to stretch on for  h-o-u-r-s. It's only natural for them not to want to come back. After all, why  would they subject themselves to such an experience again and again? Fact: That's Like Coming to  School Just for Exam DayImagine you decide to come to school only when  absolutely necessary—the one day when you take an exam on all the material  you've studied the entire year. Quite understandably, you'd consider school to  be the most miserable, tortuous place, where you spend the entire day  attempting to divine the answers to questions you don't understand.  Obviously, if you'd come all year you'd know  that school is an exciting place where you discover new information and enjoy  the pleasure of learning. You'd also be well-positioned to answer the questions  presented to you at the end-of-the-year exam. So don't be a stranger. Come to shul again and  again, and you'll discover the rhythm and reason behind the prayers. And even  the extra-long High Holiday services won't seem quite so long and bewildering! Read: What to Expect at Yom Kippur Services | 
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